I've been thinking. I found that in this life, there are only 3 types of friend :
1. Friends by needs
They become your friends only because they need you for something. When you have no more use, you know what will happen.
2. Friends by situation
They become your friends because of certain situations. It's like, she's your friend cause she's your classmate. When you graduate, you stop having friend-like relationships. Even if you both were so close before. It suddenly felt like you just know each other, and no more than that.
3. True friends
You know what true friend is. True friends need no reason to be your friend.
Be aware that being a best friend does not guarantee that he/she is a true friend. I've seen people that look like a group of solid best friends, but they do talk at each others' back. The result? They all found out and split up.
Do realize that your not-so-best-friend, an ordinary friend, may be a real true friend. They always treat you well as a friend and just wanna hang out with you.
These are my version of friend types. What are you to them? And what are they to you?
1. Friends by needs
They become your friends only because they need you for something. When you have no more use, you know what will happen.
2. Friends by situation
They become your friends because of certain situations. It's like, she's your friend cause she's your classmate. When you graduate, you stop having friend-like relationships. Even if you both were so close before. It suddenly felt like you just know each other, and no more than that.
3. True friends
You know what true friend is. True friends need no reason to be your friend.
Be aware that being a best friend does not guarantee that he/she is a true friend. I've seen people that look like a group of solid best friends, but they do talk at each others' back. The result? They all found out and split up.
Do realize that your not-so-best-friend, an ordinary friend, may be a real true friend. They always treat you well as a friend and just wanna hang out with you.
These are my version of friend types. What are you to them? And what are they to you?
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